朋友—記一次課前
什麼是朋友?誰是你最好的朋友?你瞭解他(她)嗎?
在千萬年之中,在時間的無邊荒野裡,沒有早一步,也沒有晚一步,剛巧趕上;於千萬人之中,你遇見了你所遇見的人,他(她)也許就是你的朋友。
人生短短几十年,不要給自己留下什麼遺憾才好。想笑的時候就笑,想哭的時候就哭,把不盡人意,不順心的事一次性、乾乾淨淨的發洩出來,但不快樂、傷心、難過全都只是過程,惟有快樂才是終點,千萬不要把世事都看得太完美!
如果朋友讓你生氣,那隻能說明你還在意你們之間的感情,也許他(她)就是你最好的朋友,為什麼不把心放寬點呢?
知道嗎?什麼是益友?什麼是損友?
我認為益友就是為了朋友兩肋插刀的人,當然具體情況又具體分析,為什麼事而兩肋插刀有是另一回事了;而損友就是你為了他(她)兩肋插刀,而(她)卻反過來插-你兩刀!!
其實,我們活得很艱難。確實,我們既要承受種種來自外部的壓力,又要面對自己內心的困惑。在苦苦掙扎中,如果有人向你伸出援助之手,投以理解的目光(而這個人就是你的益友),你就會感到一種來自原始生命的暖意。
有些事情我們無法控制,所以我們只好控制自己。雖然有些人很可惡,有些人很卑鄙,但當我們設身處地的為他們著想時,才知道,他們其實比我們還可憐,所以,請原諒你恨過的人,原諒那些壞人,所謂的好人!
生活中,不斷有人離開或出現,而我也即將離開這個舞臺,於是,看見的,看不見了;記住的,遺忘了;生活中也不斷有得到和失落,於是,看不見,看見了;遺忘的,記住了。它們就這樣交替著,更改著,不知疲倦。
然而,看不見的,是不是就等於不存在呢?
記住了的,是不是就代表永遠不會消失?
而我們是不是應該記住該記住的,遺忘該遺忘的,改變能改變的,接受不能改變的呢?
我不知道我現在做的哪些是對的,哪些又是錯的,所以我現在能做的就是盡力做好每一件事。
能沖刷一切的除了眼淚就是時間。
最好我告訴大家一個心得體會:同學只有1年或2年,最多3年,而朋友有一輩子!!!
never give up
nothing is difficult if you put your heart on it. nothing is easy if you don’t try your best.
we often hear people say, “never give up.” this can be encouraging words and words of determination. a person who believes in them will keep trying to reach his goal no matter how many times he fails. in my opinion, the quality of determination to succeed is an important one to have. therefore, i believe that we should never give up.
one reason is that if we give up too easily, we will rarely achieve anything. it is not unusual for us to fail in our first attempt at something new, so we should not feel discouraged and should try again. besides, if we always give up when we fail, we will not be able to develop new skills and grow as people. another reason we should never give up is that we can learn from our mistakes only if we make a new effort. if we do not try again, the lesson we have learned is wasted. finally, we should never give up because as we work to reach our goals, we develop confidence, and this confidence can help us succeed in other areas of our lives. probably the greatest example of persistence is abraham lincoln. born into poverty, lincoln was faced with defeat throughout his life. he lost eight elections, twice failed in busineand suffered a nervous breakdown.
he could have quit many times - but he didn't and because he didn't quit, he became one of the greatest presidents in the history of our oln was a champion and he never gave up. in short, it is important that we don’t give up when working for our goals. whether we succeed in the end or not, we will learn something, and what we learn will help us to become better, more confident people. furthermore, if we give up, we have no chance of attaining our goals, but if we keep trying, there is always a chance that we will succeed one k you very much!
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