我等待、我期盼、我懷念、但是在我的內心深處、隱隱的有一一個念頭。。。也許這段感情就這樣結束了、我不在乎多花時間、也不吝嗇金錢、當然我也沒有太多的錢、對於一個男人來說、都有幾個面的、對你的依戀只是我的一個面、更多的是、我也需要尊嚴、需要理解、可能、對於感情我不是很成熟、也許我沒有遵守一個月不打擾你的諾言是錯的、但是我關心你、我愛你有錯嗎?我想約你見面、出來玩有錯嗎?我愛護你、尊重你有錯嗎?可能、對於你來說、是錯的、但是我對我的付出和選擇不會後悔。
呵呵、現在都結束了、我心裡有一塊已經死了、也許時間可以淡忘與恢復、也許這就存在於我深深的記憶裡、我早說過、我會尊重你的選擇的、我自身也有很多毛病、不是每個人都能接受的、也許、我們真的不合適。
就象我說過、關心則亂、投入的越多、也許傷害就越大、一個朋友說過、失戀讓人成長、也許正像他說的那樣、我會成熟的、可能過個幾年。換個角度來看、一切都是可以品位和接受的、其實九月以來、我是一直試著挽回、也許成見已經太深、愛情的魔箭已經摺斷、多想說一句：神啊。再多給我點時間。
相識不是很久、只有半年不到、但是我還是感謝你、與我相知相戀的這半年、要知道、這半年裡、我的世界不再是陰冷的、都是陽光和雨露、人生的路還很長、要做的事情還很多、我只是你人生裡的一個匆匆過客、但是還是希望你幸福、希望你開心。
My dear:
This is a dear John letter.
Not all break up, because love disappear or transfer.
Dear, just two days ago, you break up with me again, just because I didn't hear what you repeated twice.
Do you know? Whenever you say break up, what I see in your eyes is not for the life tired, more is not devoid of light of hope, on the contrary, I see a desire, a few times in your eyes even beaming thrilled and excited. I know that you are looking forward to me for losing your burst of sorrow and hysteria, rubbing their hands inside of you to wait for the arrival of this moment, to let you believe how much I love you.
So, break up, for you, is not even boring trick, but in between you and me will regularly on love drama, is a make you enjoy and satisfy feeling feast.
Dear, I'm really tired, for you endless questions and test, to give you endless love problem.
Every time when I face difficult or tired, and you will say I already do not love you, or I am old, have love.
I am willing to give everything for you, but not in this way.
I love you. But we have different understanding of love and pursuit. You worship that agitate paranoid love, so always hopes to love go twists and turns, go is blurred, with a series of earth-shattering story, with overdraw the life consumption and pay, with incomparable sadness to prove that love, interprets the love.
But for me, love is not the case. Love is not between life and death, not emotion and reason of the problem, not for a person to give up all other valuable thing in the world the courage of life. Love, is just a simple idea, is want to and a person together, is a little caring to separate a few days later, is to think of each other heart light faint scent, that's all.
Yes, love should be a kind of additive, it should be because it give everything, and should not deprive the rest of the life for it's right to exist. Love, should be a kind, generous, good luck. And should not be harsh, domineering, bad luck.
A small example. And I together of the time, you always want to do something, and I see a movie together, or play games, if I want to a person to do something, you will not happy. But I think, love, not to let each other to become the leading role of you all the time in your life, instead, is to let each other become indispensable background - not in their life together what to do, but as long as there is you, I can be at ease to do anything more.
I think love is light, transparent and simple.
And what do you think of love, is heavy, obscure and complex.
I never want to test you, because I trust you, but because I think love is a common thing in the world, even if you make a mistake, or at some point temperature down to my love, I can accept it. Because I want to understand love of the imperfect.
But you always alert, and even set up artificial barriers to test me, sometimes I think love beyond the love you love me, you just want to put my refined into a perfect love story.
Dear, I'm sorry, in you mentioned several times after break up, this time it's my turn to break up. I am not anger, nor retaliation. I just love is minimalist, the perfection of socialist don't match with you. I am not old, is not love, in fact I than you more eager to love, so I need more like oasis crystal clear love to moisten my throat and heart quickly, and you need is a fruit juice, need that kind of sweet greasy, gorgeous drinks to decorate your life, unfortunately, fruit juice for me, already not quench thirst.
Dear, I want to insipid love, don't need a moment rink hijinks tao lung, teary-eyed. Maybe some love like a storm, and some love is like the drizzle, if can only choose a, I would choose the latter, because the storm will destroy everything, after a storm, everything will disappear. And rain can run things in silence, this is the dark forces. Perhaps many years later, I have no grand or poignant love story to tell, but every time I felt the love, that's enough. About the astounding, sentimental love story, when I had an audience.
I will remember for you through the tears, I will remember you brilliant smiling face. Please forgive me, it's not that I don't want to wait you grew up or change slowly, but I don't want to change, would you like I don't want to give up the simple love, maybe you will also have been reluctant to give up simply make the gods cry of love. After all, our life will be a lot of people love, not everyone is used to go all my life. We accompany each other for a long, leave some memories, leaving some comprehension, that is the whole of the existence and you'll find it.
So, my dear, here, this letter, and our love.
:
你發燒的前天我打電話讓你蓋好，記得吧?那會我剛從醫院回來，難受得我在床上翻了N此，去三院檢查說我腸子裡有個不明細胞，除了我都很擔心!如果死了你就永遠記住我了!今天撕得那個本上寫了這事。那天我自己在KFC店，在我們的位置上寫的!那天我買了“天下無賊”的電影票。看你發燒也沒有告你!扔了!!!就那麼簡單40塊錢就沒啦!嗬嗬!(冷笑)
我的病你不用擔心了。死活與你無關!放長假我就得全面檢查了!因為那天檢查結果竟然有三個“+”號，醫生說很嚴重!真希望是絕症!反正我也多餘!倒是你，經常感冒，要注意身體!感冒藥要隨時備好!看我，聽得瑟吧!我也有同感!
平時上上網，看看電視，打打球之類都很好。當然怎麼做是你的事!與我無關!我更無權干涉!你高興就好!隨便吧!
天冷了，穿厚點!ok?說不定什麼時候下雪呢!以前還說要下第一場雪的時候一起玩呢!也許不可能了吧!那你玩好吧!不知哪個女生有那個福氣了!
對於我們的感情我盡力了，我不後悔!我不怨誰!像我說過的，我想我們是註定的!我沒有權利把責任推給別人!怪只怪我沒有讓你愛上我的能力!
親愛的：
這是一封分手信。
不是所有的分手，都是因為愛情的消失或轉移。
親愛的，就在兩天前，你又和我提出分手了，只不過是因為你重複了兩遍的話我沒有聽到。
你知道嗎?每當你說分手的時候，我在你眼睛中看到的不是對於目前生活的厭倦，更不是希望之光的泯滅，相反，我看到的是渴望，有幾次你的眼睛裡甚至閃爍著激動而興奮的光芒。我知道，你在期待我因即將失去你而爆發出來的痛不欲生和歇斯底里，你內心摩拳擦掌地等待著這一刻的到來，好讓你相信我是多麼愛你。
所以，提出分手，對於你而言，甚至都不是無聊的惡作劇，而是在你我之間會定時上演的愛情大戲，是一場令你無比享受和滿足的饕餮盛宴。
親愛的，我真的累了，對於你無休止的質問與考驗，對於你給出的無窮無盡的愛情習題。
每次當我面露難意或疲倦，你就會說我已經不愛你了，或者說我老了，已經愛不動了。
我願意為你付出一切，但不是以這種方式。
我愛你。但是我們對愛的理解與訴求不同。你崇拜那種激盪的偏執的愛，因此總希望能夠將愛走得曲折，走得錯綜迷離，用一連串驚天動地的故事，用透支生命的消耗與付出，用無與倫比的悲情來證明愛、詮釋愛。
可對於我而言，愛不是這樣的。愛不是生與死的對決，不是情感與理智的兩難題，不是為一個人而放棄生命中其它一切可貴之物的勇氣。愛，只是一個簡單的念頭，是想和一個人在一起，是分開數日後的一點惦記，是想起彼此時心頭淡淡的香氣，僅此而已。
是的，愛情應該是一種加法，應該因為它的到來給萬事萬物帶來光彩，而不應該為它剝奪掉生活中其餘部分存在的權利。愛，應該是仁慈的，寬厚的，吉祥的。而不該是苛刻的，霸道的，晦氣的。
舉一個小例子。和我在一起的時候，你總要和我做些什麼，一起看電影，或者一起玩遊戲，如果我想一個人做點事，你就會不開心。可我卻覺得，愛，不是讓對方成為自己生命中無時不刻的主角，相反，是讓對方成為自己生命中不可或缺的背景——不是一起做什麼，而是隻要有你在，我就可以安心地去做任何事。
我認為的愛情，是輕盈的，透明的，簡單的。
而你認為的愛情，是沉重的，晦澀的，複雜的。
我從來沒想過考驗你，因為我信任你，更因為我認為愛情是平凡之物，即使你犯了錯，或者在某些時刻對我的愛降了溫，我也可以接受。因為我願意諒解愛的不完美。
可你卻時刻警惕，甚至設定人工障礙來考驗我，有時我會覺得你愛慕愛情超越了愛我，你只不過想把我提煉成一段完美的愛情故事。
親愛的，對不起，在你提過了多次分手後，這一次輪到我提出分手了。我並不是賭氣，更不是報復。只不過我的愛情觀是極簡主義，與你的極致主義實在不相匹配。我也不是老了，更不是愛不動了，其實我比你更渴望愛，所以我更需要像甘泉那樣清澈透明的愛情來迅速滋潤我的喉嚨和心田，而你，需要的是果汁，需要那種甜膩的、絢麗的飲品來裝點你的生活，只可惜，果汁對於我來說，已經不夠解渴了。
親愛的，我想要平淡的愛情，不需要時刻掏心掏肺，淚眼婆娑。也許有的愛情如暴風雨，有的愛情如綿綿細雨，如果只能選擇一種的話，我情願選擇後者，因為暴風雨會摧毀萬物，一場暴風雨過後，一切都會消失殆盡。而細雨能夠潤萬物於無聲，這才是最深沉的力量。也許多年後，我沒有或巨集大或悽美的愛情故事可以講，但是我每時每刻都感受到了愛，這就夠了。關於那些驚天動地、風花雪月的愛情故事，我當一個聽眾就好了。
我會記住我為你流過的眼淚，也會記住你燦爛的笑臉。請原諒我，並不是我不願意等你慢慢長大或改變，而是我不想將你改變，就像我不願意放棄簡單的愛情一樣，也許你也會一直不願意放棄驚天地泣鬼神的愛情吧。畢竟，我們的一生都會愛許多人，並不是每個人都是用來走完這一輩子的。我們相互陪伴走了一段，留下了一些回憶，留下了一些感悟，這就是它會存在與發生的全部道理。
那麼，親愛的，就到這裡吧，這封信，以及我們的愛情。
x年xx月xx日
1、轉彎只為遇見你，卻忘記了，你也會轉彎。
2、總以為，在最初的地方，有一個最原來的我，就也會有一個最原來的你。
3、你有新歡了，我連舊愛都不是。
4、也許有一天，你回頭了，而我卻早已不在那個路口。
5、結局和過程都有了，再去糾纏，連自己都覺得貪婪。
6、忘記你，是為了證明我可以忘記你。
7、你突然點醒我，我們相識的時間能夠以年計算了，你找到了你愛的，而我，還在原地徘徊著。
8、我們再也不會像以前那樣，以彼此為不可替代;我們再也不會像以前那樣，那樣用力的愛，直到哭了出來。
9、一天，我終於不再思念他，因為他離開太久了，我的習慣已經不再是習慣。
10、我們都這樣離散在歲月的風裡，回過頭去，卻看不到曾經在一起的痕跡，儘管，曾今那麼用力的在一起過。
Baby:
please allow me the last time so call you! When you see this letter I've been on a trip back home because I know I never has no chance to say these two words with you, this is the last letter I wrote to you, at this moment my heart ached, but for the sake of your choice, I still want to write this letter brimming with tears. In you leave me these two days I thought a lot also understand a lot, I find you just want to keep you mean there is no other hope you don't want to wrong, as you said in the monitor our family you I can assure you that there is absolutely no, right now I will never in bother you.
I wish you would give me the last time we have the opportunity to, until the morning, and I said you let me understand the lost love, many people know that the lost love is hard to turn back! But even in together also can't be like before, because I love you, I still choose no longer entwine you, maybe I just a traveler in your life! I hope the afterlife I door will continue to this period of bitter love! Perhaps this love should be sweet, then think about it. Many things are all my own ignorance of mistakes... but I really don't want to break up with you, I know I am a bad temper. Countless times and quarrel with you, in order to little things can be a little absurd, looking back now forget it, all over now everything in the past with the wind. Forget may be a good thing! Hope everyone happy even break up will break up, I know this is easier said than done. It's hard to do! When I think about being with you together happy tears can strike down. Let it gone, lost love heart let time slowly wound it forget perhaps very difficult, but I will learn to slowly try! I hope one day, I really can really learn, instead of sad. Meeting you was fate of traction, leave you may be hit the doomed, perhaps the fate will become more! The past sweet aftertaste now can only use crying instead, everything can only cause destruction in miss yourself!
With all my happiness and hope to be with you is nearly eight months, many others did not experience the pain.. We have learned. Again the injustice of the deepest heart, tears of failure, is a very simple word love to over. Maybe I have to break up to you to say, maybe I don't believe that we have come to an end; But your rude words made me sad, maybe everybody is sad, but I think it's time we say break up to you. Today we finally have the courage to face the regret of the past, I have the courage to face you should be, in addition to regret in the face of such result can only say that I don't know about you. I think with you together of days is happy and happy, is you let me know what call love? How to care about a person, love a person? How to be a good boyfriend? How to make a girlfriend happy? All this is all you taught me, thank you for let me know the many, many I did not know and done before, in my memory, you also once many times said broke up with me, how many times we are through the tears, in retrospect, also many times with you quarrel, I am really sorry you, let you involvement, let every time you are very pain, also let your character became mania and throw things, I know in your eyes I was a child grow up is not mature, because of my ignorance and immaturity for heart and tired.
Maybe I said promise, for you never not achieve them, but for me I have to go to do, but not a commitment to achieve two or three days, after all, the relationship to the future happiness, and may also be because our personality are caused by the impatient, has already passed, however, will not start again from today, because you are tired, tired you should let go, have a word, love you will make you happy, you and I can't find happiness together, only leave you let you find happiness in the heart, this is also one of the biggest cost love, though you find happiness is no longer I, but I still want to bless you, hope you later life happy happy, also wish you good health! If love a person is so silently selfless dedication, whether spiritual or material, all I want, that is why I will change my position, for the sake of your happiness, I will accept, because the reality is cruel, love is selfish!
Damage is inevitable. I am a boy, don't want to liabilities more reluctant to carry debt, so I don't want to see you sacrifice their all stay with me, do you think is in love me, but you forget that I love you too, don't want to see you more sacrifice. Leave only heard silence, in addition to silence to leave you I still have what choice? There is a love called to give up in the world and fall in love with you is a wrong, but I have no regret. It is good to have memories with you my life. I will be happy, so you rest assured, because my life's biggest sorrow is away from you, again sad again difficult?
Take good care of yourself, if you forget me you will happy, so forget me, don't blame you, you always like a child let me love and chi, now that I can't give you happiness, so I have to let go hold your hand, my can let you go looking for happiness... Baby, again say to you that the two profound words, it could also be the last time I have ever told you so, I'm gone...
親愛的，世界上諸多事情走到最後都不能回到初時的美麗，我只能退到你看不見的角落，聽說你很幸福，安然微笑。死別是無能為力的疼痛， 而我此刻的轉身天涯，卻是甘心而為。
親愛的，要簡簡單單的做很多很多的事，學會疼惜自己，不能消逝。若是有天遇見，只需要，微笑就好。
親愛的睿，對不起，不是我不想挽留你!只是我發現我所有挽留的詞句都顯得蒼白無力.你選擇沉默逃避也許是有你自己的原因，再次感謝你曾帶給我的快樂!感謝你曾給過我的關心!淚水又一次淹沒了我.這次卻是因為你...沒想到幾個月前你說以後再也不許我一個難過一個人哭...這麼快就又重演了...因為我愛的心碎...不知道該怎麼去偽裝堅強!如果酒真的能消愁的話，我真的希望可以喝到忘了自己也忘了你.不讓你再在夢裡出現...也許是我太傻了，不過是自己騙自己而已!
但我知道我沒有後悔!閉著眼睛，含著淚水想著我們曾經有過的快樂，也許我可以刪除寫的日記，刪除你的照片，刪除我們曾經的聊天記錄...可是我卻怎麼也刪不掉我們曾有過的快樂，怎麼也刪不掉你在我心裡留下的那滴淚...今夜讓我最後一次叫你親愛的，最後一次叫你寶貝老公，最後一次叫你小豬，也讓我最後一次想你，最後一次為你擔心為你牽掛...因為太愛你，以後不敢再去愛你了.我會讓自己忘掉這段錯誤的感情...希望沒有我的日子你會幸福，可以天天快樂，這樣我已經很滿足了!要是你受到什麼委屈請不要忘了我...親愛的，對不起，我愛你!
第一天
一直不想起床 只想一直這樣睡著
感覺自己只是一個軀殼
一個沒有魂魄沒有思想的軀殼
卻還要一直假裝堅強 因為不能流露
昨晚一個人在KTV唱了好久
好久沒這麼放縱了
直到沒有力氣才拖著疲憊的身體回家
不知道自己是怎麼走回家的
大腦一片空白 身邊的一切與我無關
眼裡已經看不到事和物 看到的只有回憶
低頭不語
眼淚放肆的流淌著 我已經沒用到連它都控制不住
有些事自己沒有經歷就永遠體會不了它的痛苦或者開心
結束也許是解脫 也許是新的開始
可是 很多事說到可未必能做到
就像那些誓言一樣都是過眼雲煙
我們的愛 很可笑的愛
不是不愛 只因太愛 愛的遍體鱗傷
可卻又有太多的無可奈何
最後只能在自己無助嘆息下結束
我會如你所願 過的比現在好
傻瓜 我很堅強 所以 請放心
某些人某些事依舊清晰可見
只因離開的第一天
x年xx月xx日
:
或許愛恨情愁在你我心中纏繞緊緊將你我困綁
時至今日我們終於有勇氣一起來面對那段遺憾的過去以及種種的誤解
這段日子所帶給你的困擾真的好抱歉
面對這樣的結果除了遺憾也只能說是你我瞭解不夠吧
希望未來還有機會讓我們好好了解彼此認識彼此
就如同我所說的我們的未來就由你決定
如果你認為我們還值得作朋友等你調適好自己與我聯絡
相信那會是我們之間的默契不需言語的默契
最後還是要謝謝你曾經給我的一切你的溫柔你的陪伴
這些我將放進深深的心底成為我珍貴的回憶
謝謝你愛過我.......
緣盡緣淺
原本想寫信給你的,可是我不知道該跟你說些什麼啊!
越到這分離的時刻.....心情似乎越不能夠平靜
我開始害怕晚上在電話中應該說些什麼了....
其實還不就是那些......好好照顧自己之類的話啦....
或許是前幾天要說的都說完了吧.....
現在的我不想再多說些什麼,只想靜靜的聽他說.....
在面對分離之際,心中總是有萬般的不捨,但不捨又能如何呢?
或許日子忙碌點,我就會忘了這種相思之苦.....
可是在看到身邊的朋有都是雙雙對對時....
心中又會不免有點哀怨.....
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