Some of the elements in the love story have changed over time. In theancient world and during the Middle Ages, love stories did not have happyendings, and they focused on love outside of social and economic status. Thiswas an innovation at that time, because most marriages were arranged and thepartners were of the same social class. Beginning in the late Middle Ages andthe Renaissance, love stories began to have happy endings, because marriage wascoming to be rooted in feelings of truelove and couples came together bypersonal choice.
Modern love stories are influenced by Hollywood, and often featurepre-marital and extra-marital sexual relationships, and single parents withchildren. Over the years, a conventional format was followed. As entertainmentand moral values changed, however, the distinction between convention andinnovation became blurred.
The conventional love story formula has several elements:
The couple wants to be together. Often it is love at first sight.
Nowadays, love on campus is found everywhere.
Wherever you go, you will see couples of sweethearts strolling past holdinghands and sharing their secret happily. It seems to bea tendency on campus.
So what lead to the phenomena? Some students think that the pressure ofstudents now are heavier than before, however, love can reduce the pressurewell. At the same time, they also support the view that love is more interestingthan study. As it known to us all, love, which is the best things in the world,is romantic. “Holding your hangs and going along with you all your life” istheembodiment of the love value. But in my opinion, I do not in favor of love oncampus because we are students. Though study is veryboring, even quitedifficult, we students’ main purposes are study well to fight for our future asto render service to our country. Love may prevent our feet which will lead toour grade descending. Love on campus will also influent our school’s imageandspirit. We could relax ourselves suitably such as listen to light music, goshopping, do exercise, walking when we have press on study. Why we have to closelove on campus? We have already been an adult who needs to look on things in ourmind rather than by heart. Last but not least, we should not let our parentsdown, or even sorry to ourselves.
So I don’t in favor of love on campus.
He is a mute,Although can understand others speech,Cannot say ownactuallyfeeling,She is his neighbor,The girl who is bound by a common destiny withthegrandmother。
他是個啞巴，雖然能聽懂別人的話，卻說不出自己的感受，她是他的鄰居，一個和外婆相依為命的女孩，她一直喊他哥哥。
He really looks like an elder brother,Leads her to go toschool,Accompaniesher to play,Listens to her chirp with a smilegrasps the speech。
他x個哥哥，帶她上學，伴她玩耍，含笑聽她唧唧喳喳講話。
He only uses the hand signal and she converses,Possible she tobe able toread his each look. Gazes at in her vision from elderbrother,She knew he haslikes oneself。
他只用手勢和她交談，可能她能讀懂他的每一個眼神。從哥哥注視她的目光裡，她知道他有多麼喜歡自己。
Afterwards,She finally tests went to college,Extremely happy,Hethen startsto go all out to make money,Then sends continuously forher. She has notrejected。
後來，她終於考上了大學，非常開心，他便開始拼命掙錢，然後源源不斷地寄給她。她從來沒有拒絕。
inally,She has graduated,Started the work. Then,she said firmlyto himthat,“Elder brother,I must marry to you!” He looked likeonly the frightenedrabbit to escape, again is not willing to seeher,how regardless of she doesentreat。
終於，她畢業了，參加了工作。然後，她堅定地對他說：“哥哥，我要嫁給你!”他象只受驚的兔子逃掉了，再也不肯見她，無論她怎樣哀求。
Do you think i pity you? Do you think i appreciate you? no, ivefallen inlove with you since i was 12 ,She can not obtain hisreply。
她這樣說：“你以為我同情你嗎?想報答你嗎?不是，我12歲我就愛上你了。”可是，她得不到他的回答。
One day,She has been admitted to the hospitalsuddenly. He has scared,Runslooks at him. Doctor said,In herthroat steadily a lump,Although hasexcised,Destroyed the vocalcord actually, Possibly again also could not deliverthe speech. Onhospital bed,Her tearful eyes dance gaze he,Thereforetheymarried。
有一天，她突然住進了醫院。他嚇壞了，跑去看他。醫生說，她喉嚨里長了一個瘤，雖然切除了，卻破壞了聲帶，可能再也講不了話了。病床上，她淚眼婆娑的注視著他，於是，他們結婚了。
Very many years,Nobody listens to them to deliver a speech. Theyuse thehand,With pen,Converses with the look, Shares is joyful andis sad. They becamehave loved the object which the men and womenenvied. The people said,That pairof how happy mute husbands andwives!
很多年，沒有人聽他們講過一句話。他們用手，用筆，用眼神交談，分享喜悅和悲傷。他們成了相戀男女羨慕的物件。人們說，那一對多麼幸福的啞巴夫妻啊!
Love could not prevent god of death arrival,He abandoned her towalkfirst。
愛情阻擋不了死神的降臨，他撇下她一個人先走了。
The people feared she cannot undergo loses lovers attack tocomfort w, She takes back gazes at his portraitafter-image the dull crazy vision,Opensthe mouth to say suddenlythat,“He walked。”
人們怕她經受不住失去愛侶的打擊來安慰她，這時，她收回注視他遺像的呆痴目光，突然開口說：“他還是走了。
The rumor has revealed ..........。。
謊言已揭穿了…………
Love is the base of marriage, and marriage is the development of love. Inthe past, people used to marry without their own consent, that is, without theirown experience of love, the parents arranged the marriage. Two persons, a manand a woman, who were entirely strangers, were united in wedlock, and becamehusband and wife. They had known nothing of each other before, and of course,love was a sealed book to both. This type of marriage often leads tounhappiness. Tragic stories about ill-matched couples were often heard. So loveis the foundation of marriage, and a marriage without love won’t be a happy nowadays, with the development of society, love becomes more noble, rich,fine and subtle. Therefore, love is sometimes romantic; the lovers don’t pay toomuch attention to the trivial of daily life. Some people fall in love at firstsight and rush into marriage. They usually neglect the commitment a marriagedemands. They may come across with some problems in their marriage that islikely to end up with a divorce. This seems to prove that love in a marriage isnot so romantic as one often imagines, but as practical as mutual respect andcompromise in the common life of a family.
Family in this sense is the extension of marriage. A family based on amarriage may last if it fulfills the function of reproduction. However, nothingcan be more effective for a family to fulfill its function than love. Lovebetween a husband and a wife, love between parents and children and love betweenall the family members can pave the way for all the family to a bright families that could survive the hardships and develop from generation togeneration are characterized by love and harmony.
In a word, love is the base of marriage and family. One famous man oncesaid,“ In a world of existence, there is indeed no greater power than the powerof love.” In a marriage, love needs to be manifested in a cooperative andsharing manner. And with a happy marriage, the family will be happy.
One day, a young guy and a young girl fell in love. But the guy came from apoor
family. The girl’s parents weren’t too happy. So the young man decided notonly to
court the girl but to court her parents as well. In time, the parents sawthat he
was a good man and was worthy of their daughter’s hand.
有一天，一個年輕小夥子和一位年輕姑娘墜入愛河。但小夥子出身貧寒。姑娘的父母不太樂
意。所以年輕小夥決定不僅向女孩求愛，也向她父母請求。隨著時間推移，姑娘的父母發現這個
小夥子很不錯，是值得女兒託付的人。
But there was another problem: The man was a soldier. Soon, war broke outand he
was being sent overseas for a year. The week before he left, the man knelton his
knee and asked his lady love, “Will you marry me?” She wiped a tear, saidyes,
and they were engaged. They agreed that when he got back in one year, theywould
get married.
可是有一個問題：這個小夥子個士兵。不久戰爭爆發了，他被派往海外一年。在他離開的前
一禮拜，他跪到姑娘的面前向她懇求，“你願意嫁給我嗎姑娘擦了擦眼淚說願，於是他們了
訂婚了，說好等他一年後回來後就結婚。
But tragedy struck. A few days after he left, the girl had a majorvehicular
accident. It was a head-on collision. When she woke up in the hospital, shesaw her
father and mother crying. Immediately, she knew that he must had been badlyinjured.
但是悲劇發生了。就在他離開在幾天後，姑娘遇上車輛迎頭相撞的重大車禍。當她醒來的時
候她躺在了醫院，看到父母親在哭泣，她意立刻識到自己傷得不輕。
She later found out that she suffered brain injury. The part of her brainthat
controlled her face muscles was damaged. Her once lovely face was nowdisfigured.
She cried as she saw herself in the mirror. “Yesterday, I was y,
I’m a monster.” Her body was also covered with so many ugly wounds. Rightthere
and then, she decided to release her fiancé from their promise. She knew hewouldn’t
want her anymore. She would forget about him and never see him again.
後來，她發現她自己是腦損傷。控制她的臉部肌肉的那部分大腦受損，她那張人見人愛的臉
現在毀了。在鏡子裡看到自己樣子，她不禁痛哭起來。“昨天我是美麗的。今天卻成了醜八怪”。
她渾身都是可怕的傷口。此時此刻，她決定背離他倆許下的承諾，離開她的未婚夫。她心想他是
不會要她了，她要忘了他，再也不見他。
For one year, the soldier wrote many letters — but she wouldn’t answer. Hephoned her many times but she wouldn’t return her calls.
一年之中，這位士兵小夥子給她寫了許多信，她就是不回覆。他給她打許多次電話，她也不回電話。
But after one year, the mother walked into her room and announced, “He’sback from the war.” The girl shouted, “No! Please don’t tell him about me. Don’ttell
him I’m here!”
一年後，母親走進她的房間告訴她說，“他已從戰場上回來了”。姑娘大聲說道。“不! 不
要把我的情況告訴他，別告訴他我在這裡。”
The mother said, “He’s getting married,” and handed her a weddinginvitation.
The girl’s heart sank. She knew she still loved him — but she had to forgethim
now. With great sadness, she opened the wedding invitation. And then shesaw her name on it!
母親又對她說，“他要結婚了”，說著遞給她一個婚禮請帖。姑娘的心碎了，她知道自己還
愛著他，可是現在她必須忘了他。懷著較大悲傷，她打開了婚禮請帖，赫然看到請帖上寫著她的
名字!
Confused, she asked, “What is this?”
“怎麼回事?”她困惑不已。
That was when the young man entered her room with a bouquet of flowers. Heknelt
beside her and asked, “Will you marry me?”
就在這時候，這位年輕小夥子拿一束鮮花走進了她的房間。他跪在她身旁問道：“你願意嫁
給我嗎?”
The girl covered her face with her hands and said, “I’m ugly!”
姑娘用手掌捂著臉說，“我醜!”
The man said, “Without your permission, your mother sent me your
I saw your photos, I realized that nothing has changed. You’re still theperson I
fell in deep love. You’re still as beautiful as ever. Because I loveyou!”
小夥子答道，“沒有問你的允許，x媽把你的照片寄給了我。我看到你的照片，我想沒有
什麼可改變的，你仍然是我深愛的人。你還是像以前一樣美麗，因為我愛你!”
Many people almost cry their eyes out when watching some soap playsthrobbedwith love themes。Love is the key element that leads a couple before the sacredaltarof the church。
However, in the past, many people got married without their ownconsent inChina. Their marriage was arranged. Tow persons, a man and a woman,who wereentirely strangers, were united in wedlock and became husband andwife. They hadknown nothing of each other before, and of course, love was asealed book to bothof them. This type of marriage often led to unhappiness. Tragicstories ofill-matched were common enough.
Nowadays, it is held by many people that one should not marrywithout love.A man and a woman may freely make friends with each other. Theydo not talk ofmarriage until their friendship has ripened into love. In their marriage,theymay take other things into consideration, but they regard love as themostimportant thing. This type of marriage usually brings happiness.
Moreover, love may be a temporary passion, and those who are in loveareoften blind to other things, so that what we call love matches do notalwaysresult in happiness. Therefore, while love is required before a marriageisarranged, it is not the only thing required.
ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there have been myriadsof diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries ofthe universe. in fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solvedalmost all kinds of problems we have confronted with .
however, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, noteven the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosopherscan clarify the meaning of “love”, neither can they deal with the variousaffairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us allin. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we arealways entangled in it. it is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds indifferent people from different angels; it is a merciless net that upsets us oreven tortures us to death. it is also a supreme net which almost no human cansurpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can donothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe throughthe holes of the net should be regarded beyond commonness and vulgarity. lovecan bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring aboutannoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seenthrough the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to breakaway from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.
love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into threecategories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey kingwho jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mother's pregnancy of aboutnine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents,grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers andsisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, we'll see no ly love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from ourbeloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of us aredetermined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many don't expect repaymentand relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation tocontribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and soare their expectations. but since it's very difficult to know how much we shouldexpect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge.
parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or atleast pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children failto do this, they feel hurt and upset, and they'll even complain about theirchildren, because they just can't understand why their children don't care aboutthem after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring themup. nevertheless, one's experience determines his ideology. young children arenaturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when theyhave made their own friends, and got married, what they need most isindependence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. oncethere is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keepsthem away from their parents.
objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achievesuccess. in the present society, what the children want to have most is theeconomic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance.
Love in high school is a very sensitive topic, the students in high schoolhave come to the age of being mature, inside, they desire to love someone, butit is the awkward time. First, they need to focus their attention so that theycan enter a better college, second, their parents are strongly objective totheir love, the teachers even ban the love relationship between students. As astudent, they have their own rights to love someone, the inner desire and theobjection from parents and schools make them struggle to their emotions. In myopinion, high school students have so many pressure, they should put aside theirlove emotions for a while, they need to focus on the study, when high schooltime ends, they can choose their love. It is much easier, if you want to love atthe time, then to love. No one will stop you.
愛在高中來說是一個很敏感的話題，高中生已經來到了即將成熟的年齡，他們渴望去愛人，但是這也是一個尷尬的時間。第一，他們需要集中精力學習，以此來考取一個好的大學，第二，他們的父母強烈反對戀愛，老師甚至禁止學生談戀愛。作為一名學生，他們有自己的權利去愛人，內心的慾望，父母和學校的反對，讓他們在情感上做掙扎。在我看來，高中生有很多壓力，他們應該暫時把感情放在一邊，需要集中精力學習，當高中時光結束以後，他們可以選擇去愛。這容易多了，如果你那時想要去愛，就去愛。沒有人會阻止你。
We'd like to share some of the positive meanings love has for us.
Love means that I know the person I love. I'm aware of the many sides ofthe other person — not just the beautiful side but also the limitations,inconsistencies and faults. I have an awareness of the other's feelings andthoughts, and I experience something of the core of that person. I can penetratesocial masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper level.
Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love. To theextent that it is genuine, my caring is not possessive, nor does it hold theother person back. On the contrary, my caring frees both of us. If I care aboutyou, I'm concerned about your growth, and I hope you will become all that youcan become. Consequently, I don't put up obstacles to what you do that enhancesyou as a person, even though it may result in my discomfort at times.
Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love. If I loveyou, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts andfeelings, and I do not insist that you surrender your identity to match an imageof what I expect you to be for me. I can allow and encourage you to stand aloneand to be who you are, and I avoid treating you as an object or using youprimarily to satisfy my own needs.
Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love. If I love you,I respond to most of your major needs as a person. This responsibility does notinclude my doing for you what you are capable of doing for yourself; nor does itmean that I run your life for you. It does mean acknowledging that what I am andwhat I do affects you, so that I am directly involved in your happiness and yoursuffering. A lover does have the capacity to hurt or ignore the loved one, andin this sense we see that love involves an acceptance of some responsibility forthe impact my way of being has on you.
Love means making a commitment to the person I love. This commitment doesnot mean surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does it imply that therelationship is necessarily permanent. It does involve a willingness to staywith each other in times of pain, struggle, and despair, as well as in times ofcalm and enjoyment.
Love means trusting the person I love. If I love you, I trust that you willaccept my caring and my love and that you won't deliberately hurt me. I trustthat you will find me attractive, and that you won't abandon me; I trust themutual nature of our love. If we trust each other, we are willing to be open toeach other and reveal our true selves.
Love can tolerate imperfection. In a love relationship there are times whenI am bored, times when I may feel like giving up, times of real strain, andtimes I feel I can't move forward. Authentic love does not imply enduringhappiness. I can stay during rough times, however, because I can remember whatwe had together in the past, and I can picture what we will have together in ourfuture if we care enough to face our problems and work them through. We agreewith the idea that love is a spirit that changes life. Love is a way of lifethat is creative and that transforms. However, love is not reserved for aperfect world. Love is meant for our imperfect world where things go wrong. Loveis meant to be a spirit that works in painful situations. Love is meant to bringmeaning into life where nonsense appears to rule. In other words, love comesinto an imperfect world to make it possible to live.
Love is open. If I love you, I encourage you to reach out and develop otherrelationships. Although our love for each other and our commitment to each othermight prohibit certain actions on our parts, we are not totally and exclusivelymarried to each other. It is a false love that cements one person to another insuch a way that he or she is not given room to grow.
Love is selfish. I can only love you if I genuinely love, value,appreciate, and respect myself. If I am empty, then all I can give you is myemptiness. If I feel that I'm complete and worthwhile in myself, then I'm ableto give to you out of my fullness. One of the best ways for me to give you loveis by fully enjoying myself with you.
Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love. In my lovefor another, I view her or him as the person she or he can become, while stillaccepting who and what the person is now. By taking people as they are, we makethem worse, but by treating them as if they already were what they ought to be,we help make them better.
To sum it up, mature love is union under the condition of preserving one'sindividuality. In love, two beings become one and yet remain two.
True LoveIn the beginning, love is always time is slipping away,boredom, be used to, abandonment, loneliness, despair and cold smile will being eager to stay with someone forever, later, we wouldfelicitateourselves on leaving him/ng those transient days, we thoughtwe loved him/her , we got to know it is not love but a lie by whichwe comfort ourselves.
It is turned out that those who you thought you could not lose, actually,it is not very hard to forget them. You drained up your tears, there will beanother one pleasing had plunged yourself into a depression, finally,you found those who do not love you are not worthy of your llingthose unhappy things, is it a comedy? When your wrong love
stops its steps, a brand-new world will be shown to you. All sadness willbecome history
For love, imagination is often more beautiful than reality. The same withmeeting, also with separation. We thought we would have a deep love towardsomebody. Incoming days will let you know in fact it just is very shallow, most deep and heaviest love must grow up with love, twostrangers can suddenly be familiar with each other that they sleep on the samebed. However, this two similar people,While breaking up, say, “I think you aremore and more strange to me” It is love that has two strangers becomeacquaintances, then turning the two acquaintances into strangers issuch kind of game which makes two strangers become lovers, then return them intothe original situation.
There are some who approve of students falling in love. If the students aretruly in love, there is no better time to fall in love and even to ing in love will do nothing but benefit them. There are the true romantics,who say that for true love, there is no wrong time.
On the other side are those who point out that the first few years offalling in love are full of adjustments. For students who fall in love whilestill in college, love would affect their academic study more or less. Fallinginlove would just be a distraction for a time when students need to focus ontheir studies. Students are also very immature at this time ,most of them havingjust left their parents’ homes.
In my opinion, we college students are indeed too immature for falling of us are overwhelmed by the studies and pressures of academic life;how in the world could we bear the duties and pressures of falling in love atthe same time? I believe we should take one step at a time: education first ,love second.
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